Generalization (06/10/18)

I have come to believe that one of the biggest issues with social and mainstream media are the constant attacks of a particular group as a whole. When you claim that a political party is hypocritical because the majority said one thing back then and another thing now, you are only serving to further polarize the nation. If an individual is being hypocritical, then you have a case, but only against that one person. One Republican cannot speak for the entire party. One viral meme does not represent all Democrats.
I encourage you to stop next time before you like or share something negative about a certain group of people. Ask yourself if it's possible that one of your friends identifies as a member of that group, but does not agree with the majority. Are you comfortable with insulting your friend because of their political affiliation?
What if, instead of insulting and demeaning an entire group, we hold individuals accountable for their words and actions? Then you can have an actual conversation about why they contradicted themselves, or why they support one policy but not another.
We cannot move toward unity through generalizations.

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