The Joy of Being Single
If someone needed advise on relationships, I would not be the right person to talk to. I am 28 years old, I have never had a girlfriend, and have never had sex. I get nervous when I’m around pretty girls, and always feel like I’m somehow intruding when I do muster up the courage to approach someone. I am not an expert. What I do have some experience with is being single. When I was 18 I decided that I would wait to date anyone until I was 22. I was committed to being single for 4 years. I had this great plan to start dating at 22, be engaged by 24, and get married at 25. By then, I figured, I’d be mature enough to be married. Relationships, it would seem, don’t respond well to mathematics. At the time I made my “commitment”, I was in a theater group, traveling all over the country. By the time I was 19, I was head-over-heals in love with a girl, and willing to make some pretty serious life changes to be with her. My agony and salvation was that she was not interested in me. F...